What to Expect on College Move-In Day (and How to Survive It)
The Big Day Arrives
After months of planning, shopping, and imagining, move-in day is finally here. The car is packed to the brim, the coffee is strong, and emotions are running high. For parents, this day is both exciting and bittersweet - a milestone you’ve been working toward and a goodbye you’ve been quietly dreading.
Expect Organized Chaos
Every campus has its own system, but one thing’s consistent: move-in day is busy. Parking lots will be full, hallways crowded, elevators in high demand. Expect to wait, sweat, and maybe make a few new friends along the way. Go with the flow, and don’t stress if the day doesn’t go exactly according to plan.
Less is More
Your student’s dorm room will likely be smaller than they imagined (and smaller than what you pictured from those Pinterest boards). Unpack the essentials first - bedding, toiletries, school supplies, snacks - and save any extras for a later visit or shipment. Leaving a little space means they can adjust the room to their own style over time.
Let Them Take the Lead
It can be tempting to arrange every drawer and plug in every charger, but this is their new space. Step back when you can and let them decide where things go. Your role shifts today from “manager” to “support team,” and it’s a good time to start practicing.
The Goodbye Moment
Whether it’s a quick hug in the parking lot or a tearful goodbye in the dorm lobby, that moment will come. Keep it short and sweet. Remind them you’re proud, that you believe in them, and that you’re just a call (or text) away. Then let them walk back into their new life with confidence.
Send a Little Extra Love
Once the dust settles, consider sending a small surprise - like a care package or even a Positive Pickle - to arrive during their first few weeks. It’s a tangible reminder that while home may feel far away, your love is right there with them.